Foster emerging literacy in a gender-equal perspective (parents)


Help parents to foster their children’s motivation in emerging literacy ;
Allow parents to understand the links between reading skills, school retention and gender stereotypes ;
Bring awareness to parents regarding their role in their children’s buy-in of gender stereotypes and motivation to read and stay in school ;
Guide parents in a choice of books that will support non-stereotypical learning.
Foster emerging literacy in a gender-equal perspective (parents)

Brief description of the issue

Boys’ difficulties in reading and writing skills are one factor that is linked to their school dropout rate, which is higher than girls’ (Boyer, 2009). Because of their socialization, not naturally, boys fall behind in reading compared to girls and are less motivated to read (Lavoie, 2011). To minimize this gap, we must develop, with boys and girls, an appreciation for reading starting in early childhood and break down stereotypes stating that reading is an essentially female activity. Yet, a lot of books showcase very stereotypical stories and characters that reinforce these beliefs. Children’s books might also have a role to play in the underrepresentation of women in science (Wilbraham & Caldwell, 2018). A well-picked book, both from the point of view of tackling gender stereotypes and as regards to its content, which must also be a topic of interest for boys, can help children develop a critical look as well as daily reading habits. Good reading skills as well as a low buy-in of gender stereotypes are effectively correlated with school success and retention, boys and girls alike (Réseau Réussite Montréal, 2018).

How to read a book and have fun

To make sure your reading activities with your children are fun and educational, here are a few tips from an organization called Avenir d’enfants (2014):

  • Try to play with your facial expressions: a grimace will make them laugh out loud.
  • Modulate your voice tone: a mouse doesn’t speak the same way as a hippopotamus!
  • Add sounds: a dog barks, a train runs, a character knocks at the door.
  • Use accessories: a plush can tell the story for you.
  • Let the child manipulate the book by him or herself.
  • Follow the words with your finger from left to right.
  • Encourage your child to say words he or she can guess.
  • Ask him or her questions.
  • Listen to your children telling the story by looking at the images.

You can also do emerging literacy activities with your infants. Here are a few tips, again, from Avenir d’enfants (2014):

  • For your infant, the book is a toy that can fly like a bird, jump like a frog or be used to say “peek-a-boo!”
  • Prefer board books. Choose some with vivid colors, high contrasts and neat lines.
  • Your infant will also like fabric or plastic books that he or she can chew.
  • If your child is younger than one year old, you can benefit from the program Books for babies. Ask your local library for more information.

Choosing a book free of gender stereotypes

Children’s books carry along many gender stereotypes. It is, among others, through these stories and the representations of men and women they offer that children build their own gender identity (SCF, 2018). In order to limit young children’s buy-in of gender stereotypes, it is important to offer them books that break down those stereotypes instead of reinforcing them.

To guide you through your choice of books that are free of gender stereotypes, use this gender-equal book assessment grid. It holds a few questions to ask yourself when you look at characters, illustrations and roles represented in a book. This great blog post can also help you assess books you already have or that you are planning to purchase.

Here are a few suggestions of books encouraging children to have a gender-equal representation of the world:

Finally, as reading is still considered today as a female activity and that, consequently, the literary offer is still very focused on female readers (and traditionally female interests), it is important to choose books that draw boys’ interests to hook them up with a subject they like, and then bring them to diversify their reading choices gradually.

How to challenge gender stereotypes when we are reading a “traditional” book?

Trying to deconstruct and uncover gender stereotypes in an early childhood educational setting doesn’t imply removing all books portraying stereotypical representations of boys and girls, nor does it require using only books of which the primary goal is to tackle gender stereotypes. It can be interesting, educational and helpful in terms of critical thinking to keep some of these books to read them with children and ask them questions about the story, such as:

  • What is the boy/girl doing in the story? Could we switch their roles? Why? (For example, in the traditional fairy tale, could the princess fight the dragon and free the prince?)
  • What is this mom/dad doing? Could they switch roles? How does it work for you at home?
  • This boy/girl character works as a [traditional job for gender]. Do you know boys/girls doing this job? For example, do you know female firefighters or male nurses?
  • Let’s retell the story while switching roles or changing the lines!

Activities facilitating emerging literacy

You can foster emerging literacy with your child on a daily basis, and not only by reading books! The child understands that reading and writing are part of your daily life because, multiple times a day, he or she sees you read a recipe book, a newspaper, a magazine, a restaurant menu, food labels at the grocery store, road signs and even logos and pictograms, some of which your child can start to recognize.

For your child, reading is a game that allows him or her to discover the world around, stimulate his or her imagination, get familiar with language, get ready for school and enjoy an intimate moment with you. You can read anywhere with your child:

  • In bed, before sleeping;
  • During the bath: there are even plastic books made especially for that;
  • On your lap or your grandparents’;
  • While cooking with a recipe book that contains pictures to accompany directions;
  • In the bus, at the park, at the library… everywhere!

Finally, in order to enrich your reading activities at home, arrange a little reading spot, i.e. a designated space to discover reading and writing. It can be in the bedroom, the living room, the kitchen or any other convenient place in the house. We can find in there a library, a box, a suitcase or a basket where you can store the books (Avenir d’enfants, 2014).


AVENIR D’ENFANTS (2014). Carnet du parent lecteur 2014. Bibliothèques de l’arrondissement Ahuntsic-Cartierville de Montréal, accessible at:

BOYER, Marie-Christine (2009). La lecture et l’écriture chez les garçons… de A à Z. Ministère de l’Éducation, du Loisir et du Sport, Québec, 33 pages. Accessible at:

LAVOIE, Natalie (2011). “Les garçons aussi aiment lire”, Québec français, (162), pp. 49-50.

GUERRY, Linda et WILLIAMS, Nastassia (2018). Persévérer dans l’égalité – Guide sur l’égalité filles-garçons et la persévérance scolaire, Réseau Réussite Montréal et Complice – Persévérance scolaire Gaspésie-Les Îles, accessible at:

SECRÉTARIAT À LA CONDITION FÉMININE (2018). Portail Sans Stéréotypes, Gouvernement du Québec, accessible at:

WILBRAHAM, Susan & CALDWELL, Elizabeth (2018). “Children’s books are having a worrying effect on gender equality in science”, World Economic Forum, August 30, 2018, accessible at: